Since your mother died last summer, you've made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR that you are using me as a part-time back-scratcher and bed-warmer. Also that you see your marriage as an afterthough. Mid-life crisis? See rough timeline below.
Have a good life together. I'll start packing her stuff. Goodbye. I don't want to be here when she's moving her things to go live with you, so please give me a timeline and I will stay somewhere else for a couple nights or something.